For many professionals, the idea of work-life balance can feel like a myth—especially in industries that never sleep, like tourism and hospitality. Dr. Manida Xongmixay-Lau, a Certified Hospitality Professional who has built a career across HR, IT, and casino marketing, believes that sustainability in high-pressure careers isn’t about perfection—it’s about accepting trade-offs.
“Tourism and hospitality are uniquely joyful yet demanding industries,” she told Financial Adviser PH. “We are a collective force dedicated to crafting unforgettable experiences for guests and visitors. Yet, despite the joy we deliver, ours is also one of the most fragile sectors, highly susceptible to global events and economic shifts.”
Dr. Manida knows firsthand what this means in practice: working weekends and holidays, taking vacations during off-peak seasons, and adjusting family routines to match non-traditional schedules. “To thrive,” she said, “we must build resilience and accept inevitable trade-offs.”
Rather than fighting this reality, Dr. Manida encourages professionals to reframe their expectations—and find fulfillment in the purpose behind the work. “Though challenging, these sacrifices are part of our commitment to sustain excellence in an ever-evolving industry,” she noted. For her, joy isn’t about rigid balance—it’s about meaningful work and intentional self-awareness.
This mindset has helped her navigate career pivots and leadership roles with clarity. “I’ve come to appreciate my growth by viewing mistakes as opportunities for learning and progress,” she added. “I’m unafraid to start from the bottom, understanding that growth often begins at the foundation.”
Her advice for professionals chasing both impact and longevity? Don’t aim for balance at every moment—aim for alignment over time. Understand your industry’s demands, acknowledge your limitations, and be intentional about how you restore your energy.
Because in careers where passion and pace run high, lasting success isn’t about doing it all—it’s about knowing when to give your all, and when to pause.
